Being a compassionate, merciful, generous person is Humanity. Kabir says: “Pothi padhi padhi jag mua, pandit bhaya na koi, dhai akhar prem ka, padhe so pandit hoy.” Many people in the world reached the door of death after reading big books, but not all of them could become scholars. Kabir believes you become a scholar just by understanding love. Meaning of love; It is by understanding the qualities like compassion, kindness, generosity and selflessness etc.
Humanity in human
From childhood, this world makes children a part of a race. Getting first place in the race means you have won. The whole world honours him and applauds him. The children who come second or third in the class are given respect at the same time they are made to feel that they have not come first. The child who comes last not only their society but also the family despises, beats and says; you are not capable. They do not know that this child is not a good parrot, it has also passed the test.
“Everyone is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.”
– Albert Einstein
Undefeated runner lost
A race involved a blind man and an old woman with a runner who always comes first. As soon as the race starts, the runner wins the race by running at full capacity. Despite there being thousands of people in the stadium, there was not a single clap. The runner is very embarrassed, he goes back, holds the hand of the blind man and the old woman and finishes the race. Everyone stands up and claps. Even after losing the race, he is happy and has won, this is life.
Most of the children who always come first are not successful in life. They never understand, not the people who come first in life, but the people who take everyone along are successful. This is the reason, mostly the parents of the rich are found in old age homes. There is an old saying: “A good deed always comes around.” By the way, Its reverse is equally effective. Now the choice is yours.
Burned him alive
The first time he stole, his mother encouraged him, thinking that they were poor. After some time, he started coming home late at night. When the villagers complained his mother ignored them. When he grew up, he became a dacoit and an extreme drinker. One day, he left home to rob a village. The villagers caught him and hanged him at the crossroads. He was burnt alive by setting fire.
Why is the number of poor or orphan children more in jail? They do not pay attention to being outside the whole day, on friends, coming late at night at home, on their food and drinks etc. When he commits a crime, they don’t have money to protect him. They are unable to help him even if they want to because they are poor. Sometimes they are forced or they are framed. The reason is poor parents do not pay much attention.
Make a human
How he will become in future, is decided by the upbringing of childhood. How are his parents or how do they behave, what kind of atmosphere prevails in the family, If he is interrupted or encouraged for doing something wrong, what do you tell him to say and what do you do, what content does he consume via mobile, TV or otherwise, how do you treat your parents, how do you make decisions, how is your behaviour with the people working in the house, etc. Children learn by noticing all the things that you ignore.
Humanity and brutality are found only in humans. “Humanity is the presence of virtues in humans.” “Brutality is another name for vices.” There are hardly any parents in the world who want their son to become a thief, a goon or a ruffian. Merely ignoring their mistakes leads them on the wrong path. What kind of person he will become in future is directly related to the upbringing of the parents. They never really become human whose parents ignore or neglect their children. The choice is yours.